Monday 31 August 2015

Long Distance Friendship

FRIENDSHIP

Long distance friendship is a relationship between partners who are geographically isolated from one another. Partners in long distance friendships or relationships face geographic separation and lack of face to face contact. 

Friendship isn't defined by how often you see the person or how often you talk to him/her.While those are all key components that help to build friendships, every once in a while,you can come across a person with whom you have an immediate connection.

These connections are heartfelt connections, in other words, you just vibe. These are the people you can go months without speaking to and it's never awkward when you pick up the phone call and chat or when you reunite face to face. These are the people you run into unexpectedly, and it makes your day better.

However, certain circumstances can test the relationships you have with said people. You won't be running into one another because of the physical distance between you, for example, an ocean between the two of you adds a small deterrent to your friendship/relationship.


HERE ARE A FEW THINGS I'VE LEARNED ABOUT HAVING A BEST FRIEND 4,000 MILES AWAY


  • Your bond grows stronger  - When there is a time difference, you'll have to have conversations that aren't convenient for you. You make sacrifices, and the conversation that wakes you up at 4 am is always worth it. 
  • The computer becomes your best friend  - The art of letter hasn't been lost, but your computer and the internet can help your friendship. The connection will always be there.
  • You always have something to look forward to  - You may not know when or how long it will be, but you know you will cross paths in the future.
  • You establish a forever friend  - Friends come and go but every once in a while, you'll meet someone who will be with you for life.
  • You laugh about old times  - You have many memories in the past and you look forward to the ones that will come in the future.
  • You never get into fights  - You aren't going to waste time fighting because time is too precious and you don't  have anything to argue about anyway.
  • You can still make each other laugh  
  • You can think of the past but also the future  
  • You always have a place to stay
  • Your BFF makes you proud of yourself 


While long distance friendship can sometimes be complicated and hard, you realize you have a soul mate, no matter if he or she is 4,000 miles away. For that, you are grateful.

See you guys later !!
Bye !

xoxo,
       aisyah


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